LOVE AND LIFE

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courgae to let that person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be greatful for the gift.Love is when you take awaythe feeling, the passion, and the romance in the relationship and find out you still care for that person.

One sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, anly to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.when the ddor of happiness closes, another opens, but sometimes we look too long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been openned for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on the porch and swing with, never saying a word and then walk feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. it is true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Giving all your love is never an assurance that someone will love you back. don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in the heart.there are things you'd love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear from them, but don't be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart. never say goodbye if you still want to try. never give up if you still feel you can go on. never say you don't lovea person anymore if you can't let go.love comes to those who still hope, although they've been betrayed by those who still need love, although they've been hurt before and to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone; but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.Don't go for looks; they can decive.don't go for wealth; for wealth fades away. go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a little smile to brighten your day. Hope you find the one who makes you smile. there are moments in life that you miss so much that you just want to pick this person from your dream and hug this person for real.Hope you dream of that special person.dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be; because you have only one life and no chance to do all things you want to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to make you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

Always put your self on other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too. a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a loving word may heal and bless. the beggining of love is to let those we love be just themselves and not twist them in our own image otherwise we love only the reflection of ourself find in them.The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes their way.Happiness lies in wait for those who cry, those who are hurt, those who searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love beggins with a smile, grow with a kiss, and ends with tears. the brightest future will always be based on a frogotten past; you can't go on well in the life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born you were crying, and everyone arround you was smiling. Live your life to the fullest so that when you die you are the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we willlove, we fall to recognize and appreciate the people who loved us. we miss out so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concern. Go for the person of deeds and not for the person of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not with the person you love but the person who loves you more.

The best lover are those who are capable of loving from a distance. Far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love within your being. to let someone go doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his/her own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it also save yourself from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that were kept in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness lure away your strenght and weaken your faith. Never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting any in return. but be careful for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for both person to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness comes only with open acceptance of the reality.

There comes a time in our lives when we get the chance to meet someone so nice and beautiful. Then we just find ourselves getting so intensely attrcted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consume our thoughts and actions.

The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us that just friendship. Then we start our desperate attempts to be noticed and be closer to that person. However, our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to forget someone you love.What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for your self. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life. Be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reasons as well.

Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry if you want to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and bitterness that the past has left you. Let go of yesterday for love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it will be the love that will stay and last a life time.


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