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December 12, 2008

What shall be done...?



"Tama Na!Sobra Na!Palitan Na! This is the most used statements people had clamored during the height of Revolution against the Marcos Regime.

And now we once more echo this firm statements to those corrupt and useless leaders running our government. We will no longer allow these evils in our society to dictate us, nor to drag us down into grave oppression, hunger, violence and injustice. Enough is enough!

December 08, 2008

Vocation


I. Introduction:

Vocation is both a Divine revelation (God’s initiative) and Human Intention (Man’s free response):

Vocation comes from the Latin word voco; vocare, which means to call or calling. Vocation (priesthood) is a seed that needs to be nurtured and cared until it attains its fruition. Vocation is a gift from God, from his own initiative and appeal– freely given to man. It is a calling that, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; and before you were born I consecrated you” (Jer. 1, 5). This is man’s pre-destination. However, this doesn’t mean that God is selfish. He has given man the gift of freedom. “God willed that man should be left in the hand of his own counsel, so that he might of his own accord seek his creator and freely attain his full and blessed perfection by cleaving to him ”. As the psalm would say, “…God is our maker, we are his people, and God’s well tended flock”. He has chosen us to be his own, before the world began.

Although God has given man the freedom, yet this is still subject to fallibility. In such condition, a continuous process of discernment and guidance of the Spirit is necessary. Vocation is never a human intention alone…one must recognize the mystery, that though he chose in accord to his own counsel, yet he needs the guidance of the Spirit…and must acquire the necessary virtues (live a virtuous life) along the process of searching and understanding of one’s own calling.

Vocation is more that just a calling, it is man’s identity. “See what love the Father has bestowed on us that we may be called the children of God…beloved, we are God’s children now; what we shall be has not yet been revealed” (1 John 3:1, 2). We recall in the scriptures, when John has baptized the people with the water of river Jordan, but Christ has baptized us with the Spirit. We now share the mission of Christ. Through the sacrament of baptism, we share in his priesthood and with his mission. We become now the adopted sons and daughters of God. This is what it means; vocation as identity. Since it is God’s personal appeal, man is ought to respond in his own freewill. With this identity, there is a personal challenge directed to the deepest level of an individual sense of moral responsibility – one must respond freely to the call.
Man must understand fully his own calling and vocation, for him to embrace wholeheartedly the demands of this life. He must be clear in his intention, and thus, must respond to it with freewill. Such is the demand in embracing the life of becoming or being a priest, a minister of God for his people, that one must give up everything and follow Him. The call entails responsibility and commitment. Thus, one could not offer himself to something which the kind of life is with no clarity and direction for him. This is the call for priesthood; a vocation which centers to Jesus. This is the priesthood which all of us share with Christ…called not for this world, but the kingdom with the Father in heaven. By understanding the personal calling, with prayer and discernment, one could freely embrace the kind of life which God wanted him to embrace…and this is attached to the moral responsibility of man, to foster one’s vocation, and nurture it until its fruition.

God awaits a response to his appeal. God awaits a voluntary consent; even in great pain, with obedience. The response may not necessarily be expressed in words or in a tangible ways, but very often, the little thing we do matters. Our response to our vocation is “instantaineous”. One does not even have a word upon responding to the call. In reference to the Old Testament, priests receive priesthood not through a divine call, but they are chosen to be priests because of their birth. This is in the Old Testament, that one is called by the reason of his birth. Moses is the intermediary of the call to Aaron. It was Moses who told him to succeed his father, because he belongs to the “Livitical” priesthood – (a family vocation/Livitical family).

In our desire to understand and to respond to God’s calling for us, some characteristics must be taken into consideration :

1. Vocation is a Personal Call: One cannot hear his name being called or pronounced, but by the very fact that “you” and not your brothers nor cousins were in the seminary.
2. The call is Irrevocable; “for the gift and the call of God are irrevocable (Rom. 11: 29). It develops into an attachment of the call…of the attachment of the disciple to the Master. It continuous to be a pre-response, because at anytime along the formation one can approach his prefect of discipline or spiritual director for regency or leave the seminary. One, therefore may say “no” even if God have called him the facto.
3. Vocation is a Gratuitous gift. In the Letter of Paul to the Corinthians (1:27-29) speaks “Rather, God chose the foolish of the world to shame the wise, and God chose the weak of the world to shame the strong, and God chose the lowly and despised of the world, those who count for nothing, to reduce to nothing those who are something, so that no human being might boast before God.”. Since vocation is gratuitous, it does not depend alone on the human qualities. Sometimes we might even be surprised why is that God is calling that person? It is God’s initiative. We might find that as an answer to the prayers of the mother or grandmother. More so, it is because God is using some human instruments to call a person, but essentially one’s vocation is an initiative of God…”and the Lord said to his apostles, you have not chosen me, it is I who have chosen you”.
4. We are all called not for an easy way of life…not to make our life simple. We are called because we will be given a difficult mission. Thus, in this context that we must understand that vocation is a mission, a mission which one is asked to carry upon. Like Paul, called by God, “I will show Paul who I am choosing today, how much he will suffer for me”. God has outlined the life of Paul. “He may have burn a persecutor; now he will be offering his life for my namesake…I will show to him how much he will suffer for me”.
5. Vocation is for service for God’s people, it is a stewardship – servanthood. When one is called by God, he cannot be indifferent. Man cannot shape the mind of the Lord when he calls us.

II. Fostering and Nurturing the Seed of Vocation:

With this illustration, one must see how sacred and precious the vocation to priesthood is. The one, who is called into this life; the one who responds to the call must realize the crucial importance of fostering this vocation. Primarily, the responsibility of fostering the vocation falls on the whole Christian community . It is the moral responsibility of the whole Christian Community to take care of this precious gift. Fostering a priestly vocation is a collaborative effort by the whole Christian community.

a. The Priestly vocation begins within the Circle of Family, animated by the spirit of Faith, charity and piety, and which provide the atmosphere, as the first seminary . The Parents were the ones responsible in educating their children; leading to live faithfully a virtuous life as Christians.
b. The Priests as the bearer of this identity must outlive their ministry with much contentment, happiness, and with great pastoral zeal – and that they may be able to capture the hearts of the young men, through their humble examples.
c. The bishop, as the head and the father of the local church has this great responsibility, in making and encouraging people to understand the preciousness of priestly vocation, by encouraging them in their support (prayers, financial and moral support), and by means of supporting those on his judgment are called to God’s service.

III. The Role of the Minor and Major Seminaries:

The role of the seminary and the formation program must help promote and nourish the priestly vocation. The seminary is the seedbed of the seed of vocation, from which in this formation house, training must be holistically intensified; to help the formandi develop the priestly characters. Formation programs must adopt the present condition and circumstances of time and place, and the call of the time – so that the formation must reach its fruition, according to the plan of God, and would answer the pastoral requirements of the particular area in which the ministry is to be exercised . On the other hand, Major seminaries and their formation programs are necessary for the training of priests. In them the whole training of the students should have as its object to make them true shepherds of the soul after the example of the Lord Jesus Christ, teacher, priest and shepherd .
IV. The Formation Program:

The formation program must lead the individual to fully and freely embrace the demands of priesthood; as future shepherds for God’s people. The program must help the students to develop in them to become: an integrated person, Christ centered contemplative pastor, and apostolic proclaimer of God’s good news of salvation.

The formation program is an integration of intellectual, spiritual, psycho-emotional, and pastoral formation. The formation program must lead the students not only to understand the mystery of priestly vocation, but to be rooted in their humanity as well, to develop the passion and desire for pastoral works and services. The Updated Philippine Program for Priestly formation suggests that the formation must be balance and integrated. It is in this process of formation that the moral responsibility of a seminarian is being enhanced; that he must primarily take care of his vocation, and must safeguarded its preciousness for the sake of God’s glory. The role of formators, here, is to assist the candidate in realization of this vocation. By their examples and special skill, must lead these candidates to full growth and maturity, ready to take the task of the ministry.

The seminary formation must intensify the Spiritual formation; thus, must help the students shape and enhance their spirituality, intellectual capacity, the harmony on mind and Heart – getting in touch of their own humanity, to develop the pastoral zeal, and especially the development of virtues and to shape one’s conscience. It is in this aspect that psycho-emotional and psycho-spirituality aspect of the students must be given much attention. With the challenges of the present situation, spiritual and human formation must be given emphasis in the process of formation, that it might brought the students into spiritual depth and maturity…for one who aspires to become a minister of God to his people could not afford to live in ignorance and fear, in concupiscence and worldly inclinations. The intensification of spiritual formation must help the individual to develop the deep spirituality and union with God. The document Optatam tutius aims to respond on the demand of continuous renewal and development of the church of the 21st century.

The formation program must help form the seminarians to grow mature in every aspect of his person. The process of formation must help the individual to become more authentic in his response to the call. Formation must guide the individual to thoroughly examine oneself, getting in touch with his own humanity along the process of discernment and prayer upon embracing the call for this kind of vocation. Formation program helps the individual to authenticate the intention in his response to the call to priesthood. With these, one can validate, to see every aspect of formation as his response, and thus, understand his motivation of where is it really coming from.

In the beginning of this paper, it has been mentioned that freedom of man is subject to fallibility; hence, one must be fully aware of the weaknesses of the flesh. “For you were called for freedom, brothers. But do not use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh; rather, serve one another through love (Gal. 5:13-14). He have been given by God of this gift, thus, it is or moral responsibility to take care of this gift, that this may not be overshadowed by our human weaknesses, but rather, we must overcome this through our continuous trust in God’s providential care. Again, vocation in not just a human intention alone…rather it must be in harmony to the Divine will and his revelation. The challenge here emerges along the process, from which, we encounter tribulations, but this is just a way God chastise us to become pure and prefect, “be perfect as my Father is perfect”.

In this level of formation, the students must be made aware of the beauty and the difficulty of the ministry they are about to undertake, and these realities must not be concealed from them. Thus, the sharpening of conscience and of spirituality must be intensified in the level of formation, as preparatory for the challenge in the ministry, and of the world. With all these realities, the students must be directed in their freedom to embrace the call by dedicating their lives, in full surrender to the will of the One who called them.


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Conclusion:

Vocation is both a Divine revelation (God’s initiative) and Human Intention (Man’s free response). It is in our willingness to respond to this call that we validate our vocation to every opportunity we encounter along the process of seminary formation. However, formation must also help us understand that our human efforts and intentions will never be enough to see and understand the mystery of God’s call to us. It is not in our human capacity alone to make our ministry in the priesthood become fruitful. Man is fallible, and thus, imperfect. Both heart and mind must be conditioned in the process of formation.

Constant spiritual formation and self examination would lead us into profound understanding of priestly vocation; that human intention cannot suffice. One must realize that vocation to priesthood is God’s initiative of calling and choosing his ministers for the church. Only God can fill the emptiness, he is the One who can supply for what is lacking in us. A priest must always remember that his priesthood must be centered to Christ, the high priest; that only in Christ he can find the fulfillment in this vocation and ministry. One could not commit himself to the evangelical virtues (Poverty, Chastity, and Obedience) if one was not in love with Jesus. Keeping in Christ’s love would make the ministry lighter, joyous and fulfilling. These evangelical virtues will not be possible to attain unless it is rooted in the love of Christ. Thus, in the process of formation, it is deeply emphasized and being hammered down to into the hearts of every aspirants to develop this constant bond in Christ through prayer and meditation. The student must own the formation…yet, it must be made clear that he cannot own his vocation…for God called and consecrated these men, for the service of the church and the people of God.

Prayer

Oh Lord my God,
teach my heart where and how to seek you,
where and how to find you.

You are my God,
and you are my all
and I have never seen you.

You have made me and remade me
you have bestowed on me all the good things I possess and I desire.

Still I do not know you.

I have not yet done that for you which i was made.
Teach me to seek you.

I cannot seek you unless you teach me
or find you unless you show yourself to me.

Let me seek you in my desire,
let me desire you in my seeking,
let me find you in my loving.
Let me love you when I find you.

Amen

RECALL NOTICE!

The Maker of all human beings is recalling all units manufactured, regardless of make or year, due to the serious defect in the primary and central component of the heart.This is due to a malfunction in the original prototype units code named Adam and Eve, resulting in the reproduction of the same defect in all subsequent units. This defect has been technically termed, "Sub sequential Internal Non-morality", or more commonly known as SIN, as it is primarily expressed.Some other symptoms:

a)Loss of direction f)Foul vocal emission
b)Amnesia of Origin g)Lack of Peace and joy
c)Selfish, violent behavior h)Depression or confusion in the mental component
d)Fearfulness i)Idolatry
e)rebellion

THE MANUFACTURER, Who is neither liable nor at fault for this defect, is providing factory authorized repair and service free of charge to correct this SIN defect. The Repair Technician, Jesus, has most generously offered to bear the entire burden of the staggering cost of these repairs.

There is no additional fee required. The toll free number to call for repair in all areas is: P-R-A-Y-E-R. Once connected, please upload your burden of SIN through the REPENTANCE procedure. Next, download ATONEMENT from the Repair Technician, Jesus,into the heart component. No matter how big or small the SIN defect is,Jesus will replace it with:

a)Love e)Kindness i)Self-Control
b)Joy f)Goodness
c)Peace g)Faithfulness
d)Patience h)Gentleness

Please see the Operating Manual, HOLY BIBLE, for further details on the use of these fixes. As an added upgrade, the manufacturer has made available to all repaired units a facility enabling direct monitoring and assistance from a resident Maintenance Technician, the HOLY SPIRIT.

Repaired units need only make Him welcome and He will take up permanent residence on the premises!

WARNING:Continuing to operate the human being unit without correction voids the Manufacturer's warranty, exposing the unit to dangers and problems too numerous to list and will result in the human unit being permanently impounded.For free emergency service, call on JESUS.

DANGER:The human being units not responding to this recall notice will have to be scrapped in the furnace. The SIN defect will not be permitted to enter Heaven so as to prevent contamination of that facility.

Thank you for your attention. Please assist where possible by notifying others of this important recall.

rhiyn

Friend

I have something to share to you my friend, kind of thoughts...perhaps for you and for all of us to ponder with.

Risk of Love:

A risk of love fails when one partner cannot give of himself,when he/she fears getting close and cannot trust, or when he no longer sees the other as a person but as an object onto which he can project the unsolved problems and issues of his/her past.

A risk of love fails when one partner cannot grow and demand that his/her partner stay the same.
A risk of Love fails when partners are no longer special to each other...

Risks of love depend on being intimate and sharing....When the honesty between two loving people is compromised, the interfaces that were once shared between the two in complete openness begin to close.Mutuality diminishes. Instead, each partner finds reasons for holding back and for not being open as easily as he/she once found excuses to be together.

In a risk of love you must risk for yourself.Any risk you take must improve your chances/purpose of becoming you. A risk of love that restricts your ability to grow into your best self is no risk at all, but a self-destructive act that does not increase your freedom.Without freedom to grow into your potential, your risk is not worth taking. To risk for the love of another person without risking for the love of yourself is to set up a failure in the future when your needs surface and demand to be fulfilled. These needs are to be whatever you would have been without the other person. If you do not protect your rights in taking a risk of love,you will undermine the very love which you are risking.

My friend, i shared these thoughts of Dr. David Viscott to you for you to rethink your life. I'm your friend...and i love you. i just wanted you to be happy as you also desire happiness in your life. Just a piece of advice, don't risk for the sake of fear of being abandoned...to hide from the reality to be hurt...to hold back to the things which we all know would only lead us into discontentment and unnecessary frustrations in our future life...I know how much you desire to be happy, fulfillment in your life, and in your future...Stand on your desire...sometimes we must take the necessary compromise decision...to "risk".

But sometimes, we missed the real essence of risking...see the the highlighted phrase above... Let us not forget, that a risk taken without a clear purpose is in trouble from the start...If your are going to take risks unnecessarily, you are most likely to do so because you were afraid to ask questions. It's better to appear stupid than to make a big mistake....which for me a very distorted and opposite outlook in taking risks...If you don't expect the loss, you don't and will not understand the risk.

Whenever you allow someone to take your risks for you, you are putting your fate into the hands of someone who cannot take your interest to heart the way you would.

Lastly, If your life is ever going to get better, you'll have to take chances...
Have a nice day!

Good luck my dear friend...
God Bless...




Vincent

A Phenomenological view of Love

A Phenomenological view of Love

Love is a many splendid thing...as the song would say. Love can be short or long, right or wrong, can be in different forms, comes in different circumstances, and often we see it only when it goes and seek it when its gone. Others would tell..."right love at the wrong time".Some would say that it's a mysterious thing, moves in mysterious ways...once it strikes...you're hit.
Love knows no time, place and space. But in the real essence, how can this be define? What Love really means?
The definition of Love depends upon the experience of a person, of what it is to love and be loved...how this unveils its mystery to both involve. Love can be defined as cruel, selfish...maybe!Some would say, love is blind, dangerous according to some...while others say it's just a give and take relationship...Well a person could say I LOVE YOU BECAUSE I NEED YOU...others dare to love for the opposite reason, I NEED YOU BECAUSE I LOVE YOU...
Now In a more profound realm of understanding the essence of Love...
Try to imagine the LOVE without person/s involve, a lover, or a someone?What or how could it be possible? it is not, is it? If LOVE exist without a PERSON it is just an ILLUSION at the end. What then a PERSON can be without LOVE? is it not that because of LOVE, the cause of our human existence, and this has drawn us into our only purpose in this ever changing world, which is either "to love and be loved in return" or "to love without expecting any in return?" Love is not possible without a being which beholds this LOVE - in relation to others...It is then true, that man's existence touches the very realm of being and falling in LOVE...that drives every desire and passion of man. Man cannot but to love. In the end, LOVE exists as MAN do - it would come in any unexpected time, place and space and in any given circumstances...Love can bring joy and happiness; at times inflict pain...some will fail, as others succeed and reached fulfillment; yet one thing which will last...the very fact that LOVE is LIFE...as LIFE needs LOVE...man cannot live without love, as love cannot exist without man..
What man can be without love...what then love can be without man?
-Rhiyn-