A Phenomenological view of Love

A Phenomenological view of Love

Love is a many splendid thing...as the song would say. Love can be short or long, right or wrong, can be in different forms, comes in different circumstances, and often we see it only when it goes and seek it when its gone. Others would tell..."right love at the wrong time".Some would say that it's a mysterious thing, moves in mysterious ways...once it strikes...you're hit.
Love knows no time, place and space. But in the real essence, how can this be define? What Love really means?
The definition of Love depends upon the experience of a person, of what it is to love and be loved...how this unveils its mystery to both involve. Love can be defined as cruel, selfish...maybe!Some would say, love is blind, dangerous according to some...while others say it's just a give and take relationship...Well a person could say I LOVE YOU BECAUSE I NEED YOU...others dare to love for the opposite reason, I NEED YOU BECAUSE I LOVE YOU...
Now In a more profound realm of understanding the essence of Love...
Try to imagine the LOVE without person/s involve, a lover, or a someone?What or how could it be possible? it is not, is it? If LOVE exist without a PERSON it is just an ILLUSION at the end. What then a PERSON can be without LOVE? is it not that because of LOVE, the cause of our human existence, and this has drawn us into our only purpose in this ever changing world, which is either "to love and be loved in return" or "to love without expecting any in return?" Love is not possible without a being which beholds this LOVE - in relation to others...It is then true, that man's existence touches the very realm of being and falling in LOVE...that drives every desire and passion of man. Man cannot but to love. In the end, LOVE exists as MAN do - it would come in any unexpected time, place and space and in any given circumstances...Love can bring joy and happiness; at times inflict pain...some will fail, as others succeed and reached fulfillment; yet one thing which will last...the very fact that LOVE is LIFE...as LIFE needs LOVE...man cannot live without love, as love cannot exist without man..
What man can be without love...what then love can be without man?
-Rhiyn-